4th of July Cravings: How to Feel and Deal
We all have desires. We have cravings too, those excessive feelings of need that make you run for a fix, or maybe not so hastily, quickly walk, toward a filler. Everyone at one time or another desires something. Over time if we feed this need, we create, in our minds, the want for more. It is not wrong to want things. If wanting to do something positive, that places you in the center of yourself, overcomes you, and makes you run to it, do it! Do it often! It is those things that move us away from our center, that I’d like to take my scope to here. In an awesome TEDx, Emotional Mastery: The Gifted Wisdom of Unpleasant Feelings , Dr. Joan Rosenberg encourages the audience to feel their cravings (unpleasant feelings) for the huge length of 60-90 seconds, which is how long feelings typically remain before passing on. I am exaggerating here with the word “huge”. As she mentions, you can withstand 60-90 seconds of most things, even the big monster feelings. So, why do we continue to do the...